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I am now so used to the loose fit and smooth back feel of the cami, it feels almost like wearing nothing, I can even sleep with it and not even think about it because it's not squeezing around my ribs at all, but still offers lift and padding to the boobs. No matter how your body changes, make your pants the perfect size. The biggest cup size i have is a DD and it absolutely kills me. But I think many people are starting to realize how body type ideals in our culture are impossible to achieve and people are becoming more accepting of a more natural look. Jessica Bamford-Love on December 02, 2012: I have the worst time with bras because I am full-busted with a small rib cage, plus my breast tissue extends from side of my rib cage and my breasts almost touch in the middle so the center of bras generally don't lie flat like they are supposed to. A bra pouch for the washer and dryer might help cut down on the lint and debris it picks up. Camis and tank tops may be the best choice if having anything tight around your ribs irritates you. (function(w,d,t,r,u){var f,n,i;w[u]=w[u]||[],f=function(){var o={ti:"149013429", tm:"shpfy_ui"};o.q=w[u],w[u]=new UET(o),w[u].push("pageLoad")},n=d.createElement(t),n.src=r,n.async=1,n.onload=n.onreadystatechange=function(){var s=this.readyState;s&&s!=="loaded"&&s!=="complete"||(f(),n.onload=n.onreadystatechange=null)},i=d.getElementsByTagName(t)[0],i.parentNode.insertBefore(n,i)})(window,document,"script","//bat.bing.com/bat.js","uetq"); One of the most uncomfortable items of clothing for women is the bra. Going without a bra does not lead to saggier breasts later in life: gravity alone is responsible for that. There comes a time for many women when comfort starts to outweigh society's ideals of fashion. I do need some some coverage and lift. I will have to search for that link. I know I have to keep wearing them to get adjusted & wear to them, but it is so annoying. There are tons of comfortable corset options that provide support and give the lifted look of a bra without the discomfort. Chest wrapping isn't always the best choice. It seems like most of the bras have them now. Still, most women feel better with some support and prefer the shaping a bra gives. The tighter the tank top or cami is, the more support and less sagging there will be. Great hub voted up. I started to wear bras with no underwires when I was uncomfortable with my bra so I removed the pesky wires. I have a very thin and small body but bigger breasts. I join the club of bra haters. So I'm very hopeful that this will be "enough" support for me to get away with. Silk will have you in seventh heaven 24 hours a day. No bra necessary, Elevate your coverage with increased support. Over the years I have struggled to find bras that do not irritate my scars or ribs. Conceal dark or perky nipples and add a little something extra to your shape with deluxe padding. Good luck finding bras that cover you better! whin my bra straps hurt me i use a pad on the sholders. If you have never been sized for a bra by a professional, it's time. My problem is, I have to use padded bras all the time. @ Marcy Goodfleisch - Bad bras are the worst! But some are very flexible and move with you, with adjustable ribbons to loosen and tighten as needed. otherwise, if you can't come up with anything, just rock who you are! On the other hand, if the bra size is too large, the underwire may sit too low on your ribs and apply too much pressure on that area. I suppose I should say I'm lucky in that I've never really had a set to worry about, but with time, even they will sag. They may not provide support but offer a layer between your skin and clothing, thus preventingnipple chafing, masking erect nipples, and making it less evident that you are going braless. Chest wrapping might also be a possibility. As if that wasn't enough, skin contact with the metal can cause contact dermatitis in some women. They don't know the pain or are too preoccupied with looking good that they forget they'd look just fine if everyone would quit making perfectly round, perky breasts a fashion statement. I love this subject, I am always complaining about having to wear a bra. It happens with my sports bras too. Candace has a broad range of interests that keep her head filled with strange facts, such as experimental cooking, games, and mad science. I have to have a bra and I want an underwire. Thanks for posting about this very important info. When I feel like I really need something due to the top I'm wearing, I like wearing a wool sports bra (Icebreaker Siren, especially, but others from Icebreaker and Smartwool are good). Below, you'll find. Boob tapes were made famous by celebrities; they offer considerable support, coverage, and lift while enhancing your breasts' overall shape and dcolletage. Full body shape wear has been the most comfortable, but tends to be very warm. Wont be doing this again anymore. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on July 22, 2014: Renu - It sounds like your bra isn't long enough around your shoulders. But now that I know there are other methods to consider, I won't feel so confined to a bra. The wire could protrude out of the fabric if your bra is worn out, thereby poking your sides and cutting or scraping the skin. I am very particular about the fit of my bras. pasties, or something.. anything is better then a bra.

Am also interested in wrapping, and had actually considered it, but couldn't find any large enough and soft material to use in my home. I'm sorry if it's a dumb suggestion. vibesites from United States on April 23, 2013: I've read a recent study that bras even contribute to sagging breasts but I didn't bother to read about it further. You can choose to wear a bodysuit and ditch the bra altogether as they come with built-in bras, allowing for coverage and breast support. Bras with wider bands around the bottom are usually more comfortable.

There are countless ways to support your breasts without a bra, from bralettes to bandeaus, bodysuits, and even corsets. It often feels like something is hugging you tightly, making you feel constricted. I have COPD and find bras really effect my breathing these days, but a Yoga bras do much better. They don't provide any support or lifting, but they will offer a layer in between your skin and your clothing to prevent chafing and make it less obvious that you aren't wearing a bra. Glad other types of bras work for you. I am a 44 G/H. ways to go braless more comfortably (including how to wrap your breasts, instead). There are many pasties to choose from as they come in different materials (lace, satin, and sequins), colors, designs (hearts, stars, or crosses), patches, and decorative. Soft, thin, and flexible Invisifeel silicone moves with you seamlessly through your day. Never never put polyester or underwire on. This is another way of going braless without being completely exposed. I have never work an underwire bra in my life and I am 78 but still need one. There are many reasons your underwire may hurt, with the most common one being a bad fit. Bras force the breasts into unnatural positions, so maybe that is the reason behind that. I have not worn a bra in 38 years. Another concern is that bras don't provide my breasts much shape-- I need them to push the breasts inwards from the outside in order to make my breast look fuller. Since I was professionally fitted, I love my bras. Regardingundergarments for women, we all have different tastes and preferences. I need a bra in order to wear the pad that makes them appear equal. You would just have to try some out to see if they work for you or if they are too tight. Totally jealous of exposed male breasts in the summertime! Feel sexy (and secure) with lingerie fabric, comfy adhesive, and classy styles..

There are even reusable ones available for people who wear them frequently. @ Kumholtz - Sports bras are pretty much always more comfortable than regular bras. Thank you. Sometime , depending on my top, THEY show thru a little. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on October 09, 2013: idigwebsites - Sleeping in a bra isn't recommended because your body needs time to just relax and not be forced into unnatural positions constantly. I think I have a high rib cage or something. it doesn't matter what your chest looks like for a few days/weeks while you are healing. Cool. But under a loose, baggy shirt or a floral or other busy print tops, it won't be as obvious. For some people, the problem with bras is the underwire. In many cultures, before bras were invented, women would wrap a cloth around their chests for support, among other reasons. And each type does seem to come with its own set of perils. It took a couple years, but I finally got comfortable going without (at least a the truck stops). I like the idea of the soft cups sewn into the clothing though it might look odd with loose tops when you bend eg! I recently stopped wearing bras. Most people find nipple covers to be really comfortable. totally allergic to latex/spandex ; causes blisters cannot find a suitable substitute and am not small chested. It can look strange under any tightly-fitted clothes because it can be a bit bulky. Voted up and up! It's amazing. Even the stretchy bras get too tight and makes me sweat under my boobs. I'm making notes - you may have saved me a lot of pain and agony here! Always pulling down on my bras & trying to "flatten" the band to keep it from folding over. . I saw a picture of family members that never wore bras and I'm telling you that picture looked awful. Can put them on over my head, they are not as tight around my chest and they have plenty of support. I've decided to go bra-less, entirely, and frankly I couldn't care less about the weird looks or the judgmental girls. Hopefully you can find ones that fit for you. The wrapping applies pressure evenly so one spot isn't carrying the brunt of the support. Thanks so much! Most of the problems with bras are that they try to force everyone's breasts to look a certain way. I'm a 40 or 42H and mainly go without. With most, the flattening uni-boob phenomenon usually happens, and most aren't very sleek under clothes, but there are sports bras that offer comfortable support with a bit more shape. A corset or torsolette might be something for you to try. wonderdawn from Vanleer, Tennessee, USA, Earth on June 03, 2013: I use silicone nipple covers all the time and HIGHLY recommend. They are crafted using expandable, breathable fabric to fit snugly and help clean up any bulges to give you that hourglass figure. I need bras that are provide support at least an inch below the bottom of the breasts in order to feel okay. If you are wearing bottoms with a waist that fits low on your hips, the cami can come untucked and be annoying. They are so painful. Sagginess is not caused by lack of bras, but gravity over the decades. You might be able to find other camis or tanks that could serve your purpose better. The shoulder pain, hard to breathe, breast spill over. It's infuriating. Torsolettes and bustier bras are similar to corsets but look less fancy and more like regular, day-to-day undergarments. Some even have those thinner spaghetti straps (like regular bras). I might try putting mine in the freezer this summer. The wires dig deeply into the front my ribcage, and also in my back, so for the entire day I'm practically struggling to breathe. They are like stickers and cover only your nipples, thus allowing you to go bra-less without showing or revealing too much. A good bra is one of the most importantundergarments for women.

Some type of bodysuit, corset, or torsolette might work. Corsets (and other similar garments) may be the best option for going under dressier clothes, since they offer more support and shaping than the other bra alternatives. While you can choose to go braless, many women are too familiar with the self-consciousness, nervousness, embarrassment, and boob-stares that come with attempting to be free even for a day. I say to men in my life, "Just imagine having to strap a tight piece of fabric around you all the time." I have heard other people mention the Incredible bra for its comfort. Being an irregularly big chested girl, I wear sports bras with almost anything because of the comfort and it makes my chest area look flatter (which I like). Hope those ideas help! I have some that are re-usable, you just wash them with soap and water and when they dry, they are sticky again. The skin around the breasts will become sore to the touch, and generally, wearing a bra can be really uncomfortable. You must breath. Some corsets can even be worn as tops without anything over them, alone or under a jacket or sweater. But when it comes to dressing nice, I have to bring out the bras. A bit of baby powder may help absorb the sweat. Studies have not found any benefit to wearing bras other than for appearance and comfort while moving. I prefer to wear soft tank tops under my clothes. I never felt comfortable wearing a bra. It's all about finding what is comfortable. Some women can get away with no bras, some don't look very attractive without them. Thanks for an interesting hub. I need support to look my best, but I have very sensitive ribs, and will go out of my way to remove even a shelf-bra cami at the end of the day. I wear bras that are lightweight and have no underwires. If you know how to sew, making a bra is a relatively easy project and if you don't know how to sew, ask a friend or an alterations shop to make one for you. Alecia Murphy from Wilmington, North Carolina on October 12, 2012: I'm glad I saw this. I started having these exact problems not long ago, and I can't wear any of my bras. I was a34B, but lose so much weight around my rib (don't have the body fat). I want a cami with some boob coverage and will let my body breathe. Look for no-underwire bras with comfortable material around the bottom, as elastic can dig into your torso as much as the underwire can. The good news is there are several traditionalbra alternativesto forgo your underwire or even get a minimum coverage for a backless dress. But there are ways to get the support without the discomfort. Camisoles come with or without built-in shelf bras. Even a small meal makes my bra too tight. Whether you want something that doesn't nip, is more comfortable, or doesn't show straps, we've got you covered. You could also try some of the comfortable corsets or bustier bras that give support and lift but don't have the elastic bands that dig into the ribs. For the most comfort, look for ones with separate cups or stitching down the middle to separate the breasts more (and give them air!) Sports bras offer plenty of support, without underwires. Maybe I don't have the right fit, but it seems like guidelines for a proper fit vary. put one on for two 10 hour days. Nipple covers are made of silicone gel and are typically round, stretching beyond the nipple to cover the entire areola. Tawna - A different style of bra is probably best for you. I have bruised myself and done actual physical damage to my breast because they are hanging down on my belly. This makes them ideal for people with shoulder or neck pain. Regular bras seem to put the plastic adjusters in the worst places and usually rub holes in my back before the day is over. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on September 15, 2013: CV woman - It is terrible to have such problems with a piece clothing necessary for daily use. Here are a fewalternatives to wearing a brato get you started: Although a wireless bra is technically still a bra, it's a safer and healthier alternative to underwire. Have you tried using powder to help with the sweating? Hope that helps your problem. The natural look of the breasts isn't anything to be ashamed of. Ive always found bras to be very uncomfortable especially the ones with the underwire. If your bra is too small, the underwire will sit on your breast tissue or stretch too far and start to dig in at the armpit. And thats ok with me, cause I have been ask out a few times because of thatlol. You're right. Bras serve a purpose; they provide coverage, support your breasts, and help your clothes to fit better. Right now, I research corset or bustier bras. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on August 12, 2014: Crossdressersyd - Sounds like you have an untapped market for a product. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. Underwires can press into your chest and rub and pinch the breasts, thus causing breast pain and skin irritations. Although they are still like a bra, they don't touch any body part except for the breasts. It is freedom without drawing attention to your chest. As my name eludes to, I am a man with rather large breasts, even by female standards. At my wit's end with this search. It also gives a flatter look to the chest. The drawbacks of wearing a cami are that it can get hot and steamy in summer, since it adds an extra layer of fabric over your torso. Whenever I feel that, I instinctively to pull them back down to my chest, even though doing so looks awkward. But i will have to try nipple cover because it seems to be easier to wear and maybe more comfortable. Thanks! They tell you not to wear silk. It is typically used by athletes. Marcy Goodfleisch from Planet Earth on July 28, 2012: Only someone who has suffered through a really bad bra knows how useful this hub is! Hate the idea of having to wear something so constricting. Especially if you are smaller-chested, it may be the way to go. They get bumped and banged all the time. Be careful not to get it too tight: You don't want it to impede your breath or blood flow. Lastly, though I am not well endowed, I sweat like crazy in that area, even with a thin cotton or modal bralette. my only down side is that I have very large areolas and on the dark side. Sandy - That looks like a great product. Stay with us for a quick rundown on more comfortable ways to support your breasts. Being comfortable and feeling good about your appearance can happen at the same time: there are lots of options and alternatives. Which bras are the best choice to avoid pain and discomfort? I wear a bra every day. The image of boobs choking you while driving really cracked me up. I tried BreastNest and haven't looked back. I have horrific skin breakdown under my breasts. I'm not in any sort of situation similar to yours, but perhaps you could try attaching cooling pads to the burned area underneath the bra? Seriously, no human should suffer this. I almost cried when I read Tiffany Marshall's comments. buzzfeed Thanks for all the help! Women with thoracic back pain can't wear bras due to the pain. Sorry you were forced to wear such torturous bras when you were younger. Boob tapes come in various skin tones and shades and are suitable for backless and plunge or low-cut dresses. I even reproached my sister when she had to sleep with her bra on. Another option not mentioned that I will be trying (because of a painful bout of shingles in the under breast area) is a silicone stick on type bra. J Bamford-Love - Women's clothing manufacturers need to get the memo that not all women are shaped the same. See How to Find Your Real Bra Size for pro tips on measuring properly. My problem with bras is that the bottom portion tends to ride up & sit on bottom portion of my breasts, just below the nipples. I hate buying new sports bras because they are often so much tighter than the ones I've been wearing for a few years, even though I got a bigger size this time around. check it out. That said, the band that is around the bottom part of my bra flips up because of this raised area, since my tummy isn't flat. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. It can give the appearance of a fuller chest. Tiffany Marshall from Waukesha, Wisconsin on March 27, 2013: The thing that bugs me most is that I have a tummy, or layer of fat/fat roll below my boobs. The ones that cover down the midsection would be good for you. There are also strap attachments that can make the strap longer. They are suitable for strapless, one-shoulder, backless, or deep V-neck outfits. You may feel more exposed to the world, but you will eventually get more used to it the more you go without a bra. I have quite a predicament and i'm wondering if theres anyone out there in the same spot! Comfort is always the most important thing -- screw what society says about "beauty standards". Voted up for useful! These bras feature seamless, smooth cups that give you breast support without sacrificing comfort. I even sleep in it. I think Angela_Michelle wrote it. I always have had trouble wearing a bra since a teenage. I get cheap 2 dollar tank tops with spaghetti straps a size smaller. Glad you have found a bra solution that works for you with sports bras. Normal, non-constrictive cloth will work. Up, useful and shared. I used to wear Le Mystere because they met my needs the best, but they made finding tops that fit even harder to find. I now try to get the bras that either lack an underwire or that clip in the front instead of the back. There are so many great options for women of all bust sizes and shapes, from nipple covers like theNippies Skinto inserts, boob tapes, adhesive bras, and even bras with no underwire. Not even sports bras are comfortable. Regular bras are uncomfortable, and move when I raise my arms or do almost anything. I've been fitted for bras, but just can't stand them. Bras can hurt the back, ribs, and neck, chafe the skin, and can even cause the cartilage of the ribcage to become inflamed. Some corsets and bustiers are built for looks and not comfort and can be painful, especially if they are built really tight or with boning. Look for one that has longer straps and make sure the strap adjusters are at the full length. However, I am small-breasted, without much need for support. idigwebsites from United States on October 04, 2013: Only when I'm in my house I don't wear bras. I am allergic to bras have dermatitis ,can't find a bra that's is comfy and doesn't break me out in a rash,anyone else got the same problem. And some special occasions call for gowns and dresses that shouldn't lose their shine with bad brassiere choices. It is possible to do away with all this and just let things hang loose. It's so painful but I got used to it. Not to work , church, socal events .never. Do not use ace bandages or other overly constrictive material that might cut off circulation and cause blood clots, broken ribs, breathing problems, and other dangers. I was told that sleeping with a bra on would cause breast cancer, though I wonder if that's true, but it sure feels even painful to wear one while you sleep. Since there are no straps, they can be a good choice for some dressy tops. Maybe I should wear a body suit. When you do wear a bra, getting the correct fit is an absolute must for comfort. Voted up and useful. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on August 11, 2013: vibesites - I saw that same study when it was in the news. in pain for two days now as my chest feels like someone beat me with a stick around my ribs.

what about the women that kind stand all that elastic. I've been wearing a Cami-tank top with a built-in padding from UniQlo for years, and since then could never wear any of my regular bras again, even the regular bras that I once thought were more comfortable than average bras, are not longer comfortable. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on March 27, 2013: Tiffany Marshall - Bras that flip up on the bottom can definitely be annoying. Bodysuits have become a fashion staple. If bras annoy you, it will be worth the time it takes to find tops that look good without a bra. I'm large breasted, and a very modest dresser. That is why we've outlined severalbra alternativesso you can choose what works for you. I have burned myself twice on the stove. 2022 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. Although you might want to avoid white and other light-colored and see-through materials if you aren't wearing anything underneath, and solid-colored and form-fitting shirts will make the lack of a bra more noticeable. An adhesive bra, also known as a stick-on bra, is a great alternative to an underwire bra that still offers shape and definition. It is so annoying and uncomfortable. I once even pulled out my spare set of socks at work to tuck under the band and soften the blow. How to Make Your Bra Comfortable With Simple Modifications, things you can wear instead of traditional bras. You may you may feel more vulnerable without anything to cover you up, and you'll feel the breeze and chill more, but being without a bra can also feel freeing. Here are some bra fix-ups and hijacks, with tips for how to get the look of a bra without wearing anything underneath your top. Our society is just used to only seeing breasts that are shaped and lifted by bras. I'm small chested, so I go without a bra most of the time. I have to wear a bra because of my line of work riding horses at a higher rate of speed most of the time you need to tie them suckers down! Only problem with the camisole tank top when it gets warmer out you are going to be hot in them. I know that there are a lot of women who hate to wear a bra. (Read 10 Ways to Wear a Dress Without a Bra for more ideas.). If your bras hurt, it's likely that your true size is actually different than what you think it is. Alecia Murphy - The key really is in finding the right bra, which can take trial and error. They are available in a range of skin tones, so you're rest assured that nothing will grab attention from underneath your sheer clothing. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on August 08, 2012: @ moonlake - Thanks! Being small-breasted the bandeaus and tubes flatten what I've got. Noone should be that uncomfortable. Underwire bras are absolute hell for me. I regularly use to pull it down from front bottom.not sure about exact problem..it becamey habit know but I know it looks very bad in crowd..pls suggest something.. Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on April 04, 2014: torrilynn - Underwire is definitely the worst. They might be exactly what I need. wonderdawn - Glad to hear that nipple covers have worked so well for you. They might have them in specialty stores or online. Good luck! But it is a better choice than a bra for a lot of women. Karen from The Garden of Eugene (Oregon) on August 26, 2012: I can manage the sports bras most of the time, but I'm large breasted and they tend to give me this "uniboob" that makes the seat belt slide up and choke me when I drive (which I do for a living). As it is at home it is a tremendous burden to not be wearing a bra. Not to mention how extremely fire red under my breasts. And throughout the duration of my adolescence, my mother forced me to wear these really tight underwire bras ("for shaping" she said -- which is BS because we all know that wearing bras does not aid in preventing "sagginess"), with the result that my ribcage became a bit deformed -- my ribs are dented inwards underneath my breasts. It's good that you have figured out a type of bra that fits your needs. Bali use to make the best one it had extra fabric where the wire was now they have stopped making it. Here's wishing someone could come up with some wireless support that is as soft on the rib cage as a sock.